The Bridge
Over the weekend I took my teenage daughter to see the movie, "The Bridge", a documentary about suicides on the Golden Gate Bridge.
I found the movie to be both haunting and powerful. It makes your heart skip a beat when you see people climb over that railing, the only thing separating them from a plunge into the cold water far below. But even more chilling is the interviews with the relatives and friends of the jumpers.
While I sat there incredulous at what level of despair and pain these tortured souls must have been at to end their lives, my daughter and I both agreed that what was even more shocking was the families' and friends' acceptance of what was about to happen to these people. It was as if they too were at the end of their ropes; that they felt powerless to do anything and that it was something that was simply going to happen, just as surely as the sun was going to rise the next day. I guess it's something that most folks wouldn't undedrstand unless they were in that situation themselves.
"The Bridge" was both fascinating and disturbing at the same time, and while it was difficult to watch, it opened up a new line of communication between my daughter and I. For that reason alone, it was worth it.
The Bridge - Trailer
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Lines of communication with a teenage daughter? Priceless.
Two of my uncles killed themselves, not by jumpiing off a bridge but one with a gun and the other with drugs. These weren't kids when they did this to themselves, they were middle aged men. I have no idea how they came to the decision they did.
They were both very well off professionals with families.
I think it is especially important for teenagers these days to be open and at ease discussing something like this. You did good, dad!
Good Daddy.
Peace.
cool, thanks for posting this
wow - thanks!
and i agree, anything that brings you and your kids together can't be all bad...
Thanks for having the video...I had seen something rather quickly on the TV recently but it went by so fast I really didn't catch what it was about. Now I'll look for it. I know someone that I may take to see it.
Now that is what you call family values people!
Good job, Dad. I have two daughters who are in their late teens, and both are a bit on the emotionally fragile side. When this is out on DVD, I will find it and watch it with my kids.
Wow! Thank you, PT! I will see this movie... I loved the haunting trailer and the splash at the end gave me chills...it actually frightened me.
What a beautiful thing that you and your daughter can see this film together.
Peace.
Thanks, everyone. When she first asked me to go and see it, I was a bit hesitant. But I figured as long as I saw it with her and we discussed it afterward, it had the potential to be a good thing. Turned out I was right.
Okay, now it's your turn to pick the next movie to see together. Let's see, "Fast Food Nation" is coming out this week.
I saw it about about a week ago. Excellent film.
We all have our internal demons; we all have certain lines that we cannot accept crossing. Looks like a good film. . .
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